I agree with all of the above. My "normal" way of seeing the world is 50mm (35mm APS-C) and I have always found 35mm (23mm) a bit uninspiring, a bit meh. It's too wide for my normal tastes whilst at the same time it isn't wide enough for when I want to cram stuff in.
My answer in Fuji X terms is the 14mm. It is light, relatively compact but truly wide. I confess I crave the 16mm for the speed, but at heart I know the weight would mean it wouldn't be in the bag when I need it as often as the relatively svelte 14.
It's a funny old world, innit? There really are no right or wrong answers in the Fuji lens lineup, just choices and options.