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Thank you so much for providing so much helpful context - for me as an outsider, this was invaluable!In the U.S., Memorial Day is ostensibly a day consecrated to remembering the lives, deaths, and assorted 'sacrifices' of soldiers who died while in some way 'defending' their country. Of course, that's an oversimplification, albeit a useful one. Originally, before becoming a national holiday, and before it was called 'Memorial Day', in many part of the U.S. (both in the 'North' and the 'South', that is, the two former warring sides in America's brutal and bloody 19th century Civil War, which had the end result of nominally abolishing the legalized slavery of human beings that formerly flourished, mainly in the 'South'), it was called 'Decoration Day' - and was a day in which many people visited cemeteries, to 'decorate' the graves of soldiers (from both sides of the War, though usually, in regional areas, only the soldiers belonging to 'your' particular side would be buried in a local cemetery). Even today, many old folks or old timers, still persist in the custom of calling it 'Decoration Day'. A debate has raged for years (and many many decades) as to which 'side' (the South or the North) were the first to hold Decoration Day celebrations, in honor of their deceased soldiers, before 'Memorial Day' became a national holiday. Most of which is known, more or less, to the handful of students who didn't actually fall asleep in their 'boring' (all too often, for some) history classes. I'm mentioning all of the preceding for two reasons. First, my photo today is of a local Decoration Day at a southern Oregon cemetery; but second, because I recently discovered that one of the first ever post-Civil-War public Decoration Day celebrations was held in Charleston, South Carolina (ironically, the Southern City where the Civil War began), long a bastion of pro-Slavery forces - and it was organized, not by the whites who had always controlled the local society and economy, but by thousands of freed African-American slaves to celebrate those who had literally given their lives to end slavery. It's a great story and one worth reading. (Here's the link: One of the Earliest Memorial Day Ceremonies Was Held by Freed African Americans ) One of the most poignant parts of the story, for me, is the fact that southern historians (largely white, of course) and southern and American 'society' as a whole (dominated, historically, by whites) somehow either conveniently forgot, dismissed, or swept under the rug almost any and all mention of this first huge public Decoration Day celebration, because, presumably, it did not fit or square with more acceptable or patriotic versions of the origins of the celebration.
My photo is of the grave marker of my wife's father, Roy Bashaw, who served in World War II as a sailor in the U.S. Navy, and survived the conflict. He was a thoughtful man and a lawyer who spent many years doing 'pro bono' (i.e. free or with no charge) legal work for poor people who needed legal representation but couldn't afford it. He was also, for a number of years, a local judge with a reputation for honesty and clarity. After his death, I discovered that he had resigned his judgeship, and learned why reading his resignation letter - in which he articulated his belief, after years of attempting to do what he thought judges should do, that he could no longer, in conscience, continue doing it - since he had come to the conclusion that the American judicial system was fatally flawed in favor of the wealthy, who generally could 'buy' results with better lawyers. (I know, it sounds like he was a radical left-wing agitator, but in reality he had always been more of a thoughtful, middle-of-the-road 'moderate' or 'liberal', guided more by humanism than any ideology.) Of course, if he had been killed at sea during the War, then my wife would have never been born and I never would have met her. (This kind of thinking can either take you down interesting rabbit holes, or inspire you to start penning sci-fi stories.)
The flowers are hand-picked ones from the greater garden area, and the shadow belongs to the photographer.
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I honestly don't know what to say - well, at any rate, thanks for carrying me over the line (another nice Germanism ).Congratulations Matt, 100 K reactions
I was checking my personal account data because of yesterday's problems with getting connected with cam .
And, surprise, surprise ... I saw that you were close to hitting the roof or going through the ceiling as we call it.
So I decided to quickly give you my daily reactions, and there we are. The score shows that we folks do like what you post.
Wishing you better times to come and many happy hours spent behind your various cameras and lenses.
And you can definitely feel yourself up on (in spirit ... the rest is still needed ).
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If Baxters doesn't get there first.
Miguel,In the U.S., Memorial Day is ostensibly a day consecrated to remembering the lives, deaths, and assorted 'sacrifices' of soldiers who died while in some way 'defending' their country. Of course, that's an oversimplification, albeit a useful one. Originally, before becoming a national holiday, and before it was called 'Memorial Day', in many part of the U.S. (both in the 'North' and the 'South', that is, the two former warring sides in America's brutal and bloody 19th century Civil War, which had the end result of nominally abolishing the legalized slavery of human beings that formerly flourished, mainly in the 'South'), it was called 'Decoration Day' - and was a day on which many people visited cemeteries, to 'decorate' the graves of soldiers (from both sides of the War, though usually, in regional areas, only the soldiers belonging to 'your' particular side would be buried in a local cemetery). Even today, many old folks or old timers, still persist in the custom of calling it 'Decoration Day'. A debate has raged for years (and many many decades) as to which 'side' (the South or the North) was the first to hold Decoration Day celebrations, in honor of their deceased soldiers, before 'Memorial Day' became a national holiday. Most of which is known, more or less, to the handful of students who didn't actually fall asleep in their 'boring' (all too often, for some) history classes. I'm mentioning all of the preceding for two reasons. First, my photo today is of a local Decoration Day at a southern Oregon cemetery; but second, because I recently discovered that one of the first ever post-Civil-War public Decoration Day celebrations was held in Charleston, South Carolina (ironically, the Southern City where the Civil War began), long a bastion of pro-Slavery forces - and it was organized, not by the whites who had always controlled the local society and economy, but by thousands of freed African-American slaves to celebrate those who had literally given their lives to end slavery. It's a great story and one worth reading. (Here's the link: One of the Earliest Memorial Day Ceremonies Was Held by Freed African Americans ) One of the most poignant parts of the story, for me, is the fact that southern historians (largely white, of course) and southern and American 'society' as a whole (dominated, historically, by whites) somehow either conveniently forgot, dismissed, or swept under the rug almost any and all mention of this first huge public Decoration Day celebration, because, presumably, it did not fit or square with more acceptable or patriotic versions of the origins of the celebration.
My photo is of the grave marker of my wife's father, Roy Bashaw, who served in World War II as a sailor in the U.S. Navy, and survived the conflict. He was a thoughtful man and a lawyer who spent many years doing 'pro bono' (i.e. free or with no charge) legal work for poor people who needed legal representation but couldn't afford it. He was also, for a number of years, a local judge with a reputation for honesty and clarity. After his death, I discovered that he had resigned his judgeship, and learned why reading his resignation letter - in which he articulated his belief that, after years of attempting to do what he thought judges should do, that he could no longer, in conscience, continue doing it - since he had come to the conclusion that the American judicial system was fatally flawed in favor of the wealthy, who generally could 'buy' results with better lawyers. (I know, it sounds like he was a radical left-wing agitator, but in reality he had always been more of a thoughtful, middle-of-the-road 'moderate' or 'liberal', guided more by humanism than any ideology.) Of course, if he had been killed at sea during the War, then my wife would have never been born and I never would have met her. (This kind of thinking can either take you down interesting rabbit holes, or inspire you to start penning sci-fi stories.)
The flowers are hand-picked ones from the greater garden area, and the shadow belongs to the photographer.
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Miguel,
Although it has occurred to me many times before to do so, only now am I mentioning your eloquent and professional writing skills. Very lovingly written background story on Decoration/Memorial Day and its connection to your wife’s family. Thank you for doing It.
My father was a WWII veteran too. He served the US Army against Nazi forces in the northern Italian front. There he was captured in battle, became a POW but was ultimately rescued about a week later. Following that experience, he lost an eye to shrapnel and was discharged as the European theatre was concluding. I frequently wonder about his experiences back then as he joined up at only 17 by lying about his age (a typical thing for that war). He would never speak about his time in the war, and there was no understanding of PTSD and how it affected the lives of soldiers back then. Thank you for making this day a little better with a personal story!!
What a story. Our generation can call itself lucky ... over 70 years now without any wars in the country. My grandmother lived through two wars with all the sufferings and losses of sons, husbands and fathers. Thanks to your soldiers the Nazi regime was brought to its knees. And if my father who was forcibly sent to the East-Front aged 17 had not survived the five years of "work camp" in Siberia, I too wouldn't be here. I'm wondering at times how I have earned this special grace.In the U.S., Memorial Day is ostensibly a day consecrated to remembering the lives, deaths, and assorted 'sacrifices' of soldiers who died while in some way 'defending' their country. Of course, that's an oversimplification, albeit a useful one. Originally, before becoming a national holiday, and before it was called 'Memorial Day', in many part of the U.S. (both in the 'North' and the 'South', that is, the two former warring sides in America's brutal and bloody 19th century Civil War, which had the end result of nominally abolishing the legalized slavery of human beings that formerly flourished, mainly in the 'South'), it was called 'Decoration Day' - and was a day on which many people visited cemeteries, to 'decorate' the graves of soldiers (from both sides of the War, though usually, in regional areas, only the soldiers belonging to 'your' particular side would be buried in a local cemetery). Even today, many old folks or old timers, still persist in the custom of calling it 'Decoration Day'. A debate has raged for years (and many many decades) as to which 'side' (the South or the North) was the first to hold Decoration Day celebrations, in honor of their deceased soldiers, before 'Memorial Day' became a national holiday. Most of which is known, more or less, to the handful of students who didn't actually fall asleep in their 'boring' (all too often, for some) history classes. I'm mentioning all of the preceding for two reasons. First, my photo today is of a local Decoration Day at a southern Oregon cemetery; but second, because I recently discovered that one of the first ever post-Civil-War public Decoration Day celebrations was held in Charleston, South Carolina (ironically, the Southern City where the Civil War began), long a bastion of pro-Slavery forces - and it was organized, not by the whites who had always controlled the local society and economy, but by thousands of freed African-American slaves to celebrate those who had literally given their lives to end slavery. It's a great story and one worth reading. (Here's the link: One of the Earliest Memorial Day Ceremonies Was Held by Freed African Americans ) One of the most poignant parts of the story, for me, is the fact that southern historians (largely white, of course) and southern and American 'society' as a whole (dominated, historically, by whites) somehow either conveniently forgot, dismissed, or swept under the rug almost any and all mention of this first huge public Decoration Day celebration, because, presumably, it did not fit or square with more acceptable or patriotic versions of the origins of the celebration.
My photo is of the grave marker of my wife's father, Roy Bashaw, who served in World War II as a sailor in the U.S. Navy, and survived the conflict. He was a thoughtful man and a lawyer who spent many years doing 'pro bono' (i.e. free or with no charge) legal work for poor people who needed legal representation but couldn't afford it. He was also, for a number of years, a local judge with a reputation for honesty and clarity. After his death, I discovered that he had resigned his judgeship, and learned why reading his resignation letter - in which he articulated his belief that, after years of attempting to do what he thought judges should do, that he could no longer, in conscience, continue doing it - since he had come to the conclusion that the American judicial system was fatally flawed in favor of the wealthy, who generally could 'buy' results with better lawyers. (I know, it sounds like he was a radical left-wing agitator, but in reality he had always been more of a thoughtful, middle-of-the-road 'moderate' or 'liberal', guided more by humanism than any ideology.) Of course, if he had been killed at sea during the War, then my wife would have never been born and I never would have met her. (This kind of thinking can either take you down interesting rabbit holes, or inspire you to start penning sci-fi stories.)
The flowers are hand-picked ones from the greater garden area, and the shadow belongs to the photographer.
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